Respect, Honesty, Trust and Loyalty

When you build character you have many things to consider. Think about it, it takes time when you consider the key areas listed above.
As a matter of fact it may take you years to build a solid reputation and only minutes to ruin it.
Now understand I will never run for an office, public opinion is not at stake.  However there is something much greater to consider.  Something that affects my opinion more than anyone.
That is the opinion of self.
Think about it, have you ever viewed something that you wish you had not?
Have you ever said words that you wish you could take back?
Have you ever been late to a wedding or funeral?
We all have what we consider to be ethical ways to live by, what if we cross that line we have drawn for ourselves?  What if no one knew but us?  You can't just forget it, it is forged into your memory. You know what you have done when no one was looking.  How easy is it to forgive yourself?
Even after you admit your error in judgement and the apology is accepted you still feel bad. 
So the easiest thing would be just "think" before you act or speak.
Things happen, plan ahead, and forgive yourself when it does not work out.  If you don't you will never have the right attitude.